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      <image:title>Articles - “That first terrible year was all scotch and bad decisions poured into my open wound.”</image:title>
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      <image:caption>I Spurned Susan Patton’s Advice: Race, Religion and “Marrying Smart” Observer.com, May 9, 2014</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Your Husband’s Job Is Not More Important Than Yours InStyle.com, March 31, 2020 (also Yahoo.com)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ronan Farrow, Nobel Prize Winner and Patriarchy Smasher, Dies at 80 The Satirist, October 18, 2018</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Why the Stanford Rape Case Gives Me Hope Observer.com, June 30, 2016</image:caption>
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